relationships, a bit personal
“The only person who can make you happy is yourself.”
it's kinda bullshit?
i mean, i understand it's very important to not expect everything to come from others, to work on yourself, to not be too dependent on one single person, etc.
but if you do keep that in mind, relationships can actually help? in my case i was a mess 2 years ago, and i've been a mess for a long part of my current relationships; so much of a mess that i guess some people would probably have told me to fix myself before starting those relationships; and it has been rough at times; but i do think i'm handling things better and it's in great part thanks to those relationships to begin with
also, even outside of those relationships, you know, hanging out with people i love etc. makes me happy; being on my own, not so much
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